Today people think that women are liberated in the West
and that the Women’s liberation movement began in the 20th century.
Actually, the women’s liberation movement was not begun by women, but was
revealed by God to a man in the seventh century by the name of Muhammad, may
the mercy and blessings of God be upon him, the last Prophet of God. The
Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet are the sources from which every Muslim
woman derives her rights and duties.
Human Rights
Islam, fourteen centuries ago, made women equally
accountable to God in glorifying and worshipping Him – setting no limits on her
moral progress. Also, Islam established a woman’s equality in her
humanity with men. In the Quran, in the first verse of the chapter
entitled “Women”, God says:
“O mankind! Be careful of your duty toward your Lord who created
you from a single soul and from it its mate and from them both have spread
abroad a multitude of men and women. Be careful of your duty toward God
in Whom you claim (your rights) of one another, and towards the wombs (that
bore you). Lo! God has been a Watcher over you.” (Quran 4:1)
Since men and women both came from the same essence,
they are equal in their humanity. Women cannot be by nature evil (as some
religions teach) or then men would be evil also. Similarly, neither
gender can be superior because it would be a contradiction to equality.
Civil Rights
In Islam, a woman has the basic freedoms of choice and
expression based on recognition of her individual personality. First, a
non-Muslim woman can not be forced to convert for marriage, or upon the
conversion of parents. The Quran states:
“There is no compulsion in religion. Right has been made distinct
from error.” (Quran 2:256)
Women are encouraged in Islam to contribute their
opinions and ideas. There are many traditions of the Prophet which
indicate that women would pose questions directly to him and offer their
opinions concerning religion, economics and social matters.
A Muslim woman has full right to approve or deny a
proposal of marriage, and her name is to be kept after marriage. A Muslim
woman’s testimony is valid in legal disputes. In fact, where women are
more familiar, their evidence is conclusive.
Social Rights
The Prophet said:
“Seeking knowledge is a mandate for every Muslim (male
and female).” (At-Tirmidhi)
This includes knowledge of the Quran and the Hadeeth
as well as other types of knowledge. Men and women both have the capacity
for learning and understanding. Since it is also their obligation to
promote good behavior and condemn bad behavior in all spheres of life, Muslim
women must acquire the appropriate education to perform this duty in accordance
with their own natural talents and interests.
While bearing, raising and teaching of children, and
providing support to her husband and maintenance of a home are among the first,
and very highly regarded, roles for a woman, if she has the skills to work
outside the home for the good of the community, she may do, so as long as her
family obligations are met.
Islam recognizes and fosters the natural differences
between men and women despite their equality. Some types of work are more
suitable for men and other types for women. This in no way diminishes
either’s efforts or benefits. God will reward both sexes equally for the
value of their work, through, it may not necessarily be the same activity.
Concerning motherhood, the Prophet said:
“Heaven lies under her feet.” (An-Nasai)
This implies that the success of a society can be
traced to the mothers who raised it. The first and greatest influence on
a person comes from the sense of security, affection, and training received
from the mother. Therefore, a woman having children must be educated and
conscientious in order to be a skillful parent.
Political Rights
A right given to Muslim women by God 1400 years ago is
the right to voice her opinion on social issues. On any public matter, a
woman may voice her opinion and participate in politics. Also, Islam does
not forbid a woman from holding important positions in government which suit
her role as a woman. Abdurrahman Ibn Awf consulted many women before he
recommended Uthman Ibn Affan to be the Caliph.
Economic Rights
Islam is clear in its teachings that God created men
and women to be different, with unique roles, functions and skills. As in
society, where there is a division of labor, so too in a family, each member
has different responsibilities. Generally, Islam upholds that women are
entrusted with the nurturing role, and men, with the guardian role.
Therefore, women are given the right of financial support.
The Quran states:
“Men are the maintainers of women because God has made some of them to
excel others and because they spend of their wealth (for the support of
women).” (Quran 4:34)
This guardianship and greater financial responsibility
given to men requires that they provide women with not only monetary support
but also physical protection and kind respectful treatment.
Muslim women have the privilege to earn money, the
right to own property, to enter into legal contracts and to manage all of her
assets in any way she pleases. She can run her own business and no one
has any claim on her earnings, including her husband.
The Quran states:
“And in no wise covet those things in which God hath bestowed His gifts
more freely on some of you than on others; to men is allotted what they earn,
and to women, what they earn; but ask God of His bounty for God hath full
knowledge of all things.” (Quran 4:32)
A woman inherits from her relatives. The Quran
states:
“For men there is a share in what parents and relatives leave, and for
women there is a share of what parents and relatives leave, whether it be
little or much – an ordained share.” (Quran 4:7)
Rights of a Wife
The Quran states:
“And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among
yourselves that you may live in tranquility with them, and He has put love and
mercy between you; Verily, in that are signs for people who reflect.” (Quran
30:21)
Marriage is therefore not just a physical or emotional
necessity but, in fact, a sign from God! It is a relationship of mutual rights
and obligations based on divine guidance. God created men and women with
complimentary natures and, in the Quran, He laid out a system of laws to
support harmonious interaction between the sexes.
“…They are your garments and you are their garments….” (Quran 2:187)
Clothing provides physical protection and covers the
beauty and faults of the body. Likewise, a spouse is viewed this way.
Each protects the other and hides the faults and compliments the
characteristics of the spouse. To foster the love and security that comes
with marriage, Muslim wives have various rights. The first of the wife’s
rights is to receive mahr, a gift from the husband, which is part of the
marriage contract and required for the legality of the marriage.
The second right of a wife is maintenance.
Despite any wealth she may have, her husband is obligated to provide her with
food, shelter and clothing. He is not forced, however, to spend beyond
his capability and his wife is not entitled to make unreasonable demands.
The Quran states:
“Let the man of means spend according to his means, and the man whose
resources are restricted, let him spend according to what God has given
him. God puts no burden on any person beyond what He has given him.”
(Quran 65:7)
God tells us men are guardians over women and are
afforded the leadership in the family. His responsibility for obeying God
extends to guiding his family to obey God at all times.
A wife’s rights also extend beyond material
needs. She has the right to kind treatment. The Prophet said:
“The most perfect believers are the best in
conduct. And the best of you are those who are the best to their wives.”
God tells us He created mates and put love, mercy and
tranquility between them.
Both men and women have a need for companionship and
sexual needs, and marriage is designed to fulfill those needs. For one
spouse to deny this satisfaction to the other, the temptation exists to seek it
elsewhere.
Duties of a Wife
With rights come responsibilities. Therefore,
wives have certain obligations to their husbands. The Quran states:
“…The good women in the absence of their husbands guard their rights as
God has enjoined upon them to be guarded….”(Quran 4:34)
A wife is to keep her husband’s secrets and protect
their marital privacy. Issues of intimacy or faults of his that would
dishonor him, are not to be shared by the wife, just as he is expected to guard
her honor.
A wife must also guard her husband’s property.
She must safeguard his home and possessions, to the best of her ability, from
theft or damage. She should manage the household affairs wisely so as to
prevent loss or waste. She should not allow anyone to enter the house
whom her husband dislikes nor incur any expenses of which her husband
disapproves.
A Muslim woman must cooperate and coordinate with her
husband. There cannot, however, be cooperation with a man who is
disobedient to God. She should not fulfill his requests if he wants her
to do something unlawful. A husband also should not take advantage of his
wife, but be considerate of her needs and happiness.
Conclusion
The Quran states:
“And it befits not a believing man or a believing woman, when God and
His Messenger have decided on an affair (for them), that they should (after
that) claim any say in their affair; and whoso is rebellious to God and His
Messenger, he verily goes astray in error manifest.” (Quran 33:36)
The Muslim woman was given a role, duties and rights
1400 years ago that most women do not enjoy today in the West. These are
from God and are designed to keep balance in society; what may seem unjust or
missing in one place is compensated for or explained in another place.
Islam is a complete way of life.
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